We'll never stop remembering when it comes to Geordie gent Sir Bobby
IF ever a person in any walk of life was in need of inspiration - then Sir Bobby Robson is the ideal figurehead to use an example.
Sir Bobby passed away quietly yesterday morning but the legacy that he leaves behind is priceless.
We'd all like to think we could be better people whether that's day to day to common courtesy, good manners or just treating the people close around us better.
But somehow Sir Bobby had this off to perfection.
No matter who he rubbed shoulders with, he knew how to talk to them properly.
As a manager, he knew how to manage different personalities, something other managers find so difficult.
Certainly, a look back through the life of Sir Bobby especially Robson the manager shows that his ability to deal with criticism was also second to none.
In recent times we've watched David Beckham react to fans in the United States when the right response would be to walk on and take it on the chin.
It must have been hard for Beckham in that situation when faced by MLS fans screaming obscenities at him about his wife and he flipped.
Even the great can take inspiration from Sir Bobby.
As England boss he faced a constant barrage of abuse.
In life you will always get people doubting your ability or thinking they can do a better job than you.
And you'll always get whiners, criers, muppets and maniacs hurling abuse at people from afar, especially at people who are in the public eye.
Robson showed the world how to be resilient and deal with such adverse factors and that is a lesson to us all.
It's part of life and it's part of football but Sir Bobby managed to show the strength to endure it and then almost lead the country to the World Cup in 1990.
Looking back it's hard to believe that Robson was fired by United for finishing FIFTH.
And as Warren Barton said: "They were in the Champions League then and look where they are now."
But even after Robson's football days in management were over he went on to channel his energies into something that will give people the greatest gift of all - life.
Setting up the Sir Bobby Robson Foundation was another masterstroke and one that will be appreciated forever.
Speaking to players and fans alike yesterday was emotional to say the least.
But the phoneline was still red hot all day and it was impossible to escape the overwhelming sense of loss to the world as former players, managers and officials that queued up to pay tribute.
It was one of the longest of days for everybody and while it was tinged with sadness this was countered balanced with laughter and joy as well with clips of the late great Robson being shown on TV throughout the day.
In fact the tributes were so long that there was enough material to keep us going for weeks on end.
Alan Shearer - who scored the winner in Sir Bob's benefit game - led the tributes when he told me: "My memories of Sir Bobby will live with me forever.
"I was lucky enough to shake his hand and tell him on Sunday what he meant to me and how much I appreciated what he'd done for me.
"I was able to tell him that.
"I told him that he'd saved my career and I was able to say goodbye."
It was truly gripping and emotional phonecall but Shearer went on: "The legacy he left behind in football was huge.
"Everywhere he went he was a huge success because everybody loved him so much.
"He was able to talk to both the young and old and he was the true Geordie gentleman."
And when asked if United should name a stand after Sir Bobby, Shearer simply replied: "I hope that happens because he would deserve it that's for sure."
Many fans have spoken about naming the East Stand after Sir Bobby but with the Gallowgate End unnamed unlike the Sir John Hall Stand at the Leazes End, there is more than one option.
One fan from Preston North End emailed me to tell me about one of the stands at Deepdale which has the face of Bill Shankly behind the goal illustrated in different coloured seats and he felt it would be a fitting tribute to brighten up the Gallowgate in a similar fashion.
Another interview I carried out yesterday was particularly moving with Sir Bobby's former assistant John Carver.
Carver admitted he had to fight back the tears when thinking of Sir Bobby but said: "I remember when we all lost our jobs when he was sacked, he felt guilty for that.
"He was willing for me to find employment and he helped me so much.
"Whenever I needed advice he was the first person I'd pick the phone up to talk to.
"Even when I came home from managing Toronto recently, he was there and I went to talk to him.
"Even at the height of his illness, he only wanted to talk about me and make sure I was OK.
"The other thing he'd want to talk about was Newcastle United and the state we were in."
Robson though was a man of the people and in a recent interview with Freddy Shepherd he spoke of the day that United toured the Far East and with 3,000 fans turning up to watch training he refused to leave until he'd signed every single autograph book.
It's impossible to sum up Sir Bobby Robson and I could talk all day about the managerial great that probably should have had a lot longer than five years in charge at St James's Park.
God bless you Sir Bobby, we'll never stop remembering.
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just imagine if SBR had been around still managing that club for 10yrs? I think sacking SBR had a more devestating effect on the club than when Keegan first left as manager. We should never forgive Shepard for that! i beleive SBR would of still been with us now had he still been managing NUFC -The last true great english manager and we could of had him with us..
Sir Bobby was the exception, in an otherwise lamentable club, Chief culprids SHEPHERD, HALL, KEEGAN.Ashley is a complete nonentity
The man was a legend, often used to much for to many people, but this case its appropriate, a gentleman, a caring person, who brought the geordie nation together.
I always remember keegan going, how bit by bit, the next managers, dismantled the team, and all the good work.
In walked Bobby and lifted us up, and bit by bit, put us back together again, his warmth and charm, took the team,fans and the whole area, on a wondeful ride, that took us almost to the silverware.
The sad day when Shephard and his cronies lost the faith and sacked him, lead to the demise we face today, as again, all the good work and foundation that Sir Bobby had built, was again being dismantled by useless nobodies, the youth, the pace, the togetherness was ripped out by souness, roeder, and allardyce, and replaced with the losers we now have.
Its sad for us, but Sir Bobby must have felt the hurt and sadness, seeing all that was good be drained out of the club, and end up on the scarp heap.
RIP Sir Bobby, we will miss you
Sony0, I couldn't agree more.. i saw the interview with Dwick Lambsarse on the nationl news, commenting about how being put in his place by SBR was "Acceptalbe"??? or something similar eh? em yes Dwick that goes without saying, you total muppet! you really do not get it at all do you... please go home.
will the toon ;the north east;england; football; ever be the same again; answer never
Perhaps the poisnous press from the smoke will take heed of the pictures of thousands of Geordies piling in to show their respect and love for SBR and suddenly although highly unlikely , begin to understand what makes us tick . Yes we are a nation and if that upsets the tabloids then tough. We care about our own and we will always close ranks and look after each other and honour our own because we understand the importance of having a united identity . Sadly down South there is no particular identity, it's a melting pot of all sorts where nobody cares for anybody but themselves and where the next pound is coming from . I know I have the misfortune of living in the South and know that there isn't the warmth or friendship there is in the North East and that in all honesty is why there is so much hatred for what we have. Always be proud of what we have and always honour and remember those of us who have made the Geordie nation proud
John Best.
Why slag Keegan off?
No need man.
Let's hope they name a stand after SBR - but let's have one named for Joe Harvey too! About bloody time the man bgot his due.
I don't sit easy with this at all
Remember there was a sizeable part of the crowd wanted rid of Sir Bobby in 2004, even if it was the Hall/Shepherd combination that actually shafted him. One of us. That is the main reason why so many other fans are so pleased to see us where we are now.
There are a lot of people who should be ashamed of themselves (Shepherd included, obviously) who are now talking about SBR as if they had wanted him as manager unconditionally until 2020.
Of course Sir Bobby deserves a stand named after him, but whether we at SJP want to be permanently reminded of one of the most disgraceful episodes in the club's recent history - that's another question......
Very fair comment Ed - but the truth is that Sir Bobby, the man, is bigger than this current mess. Given time, the anger at the mistakes and at the villains of the piece will start to fade away.
Whereas Sir Bobby Robson The Great's memory, his legacy, his achievements and class will never fade away.
Long live the great man.